Rebuild your marriage through a three-phase proven process.
Most couples come to me when they’ve tried everything — therapy, books, date nights — and nothing really changes.
Disconnection isn’t fixed by more information; it’s fixed by a process that rewires how you understand, speak to, and experience each other.
Every couple I work with moves through three essential phases: Align · Disrupt · Rebuild.
How fast we move depends on how deeply you want to engage.
The Three Phases of Change
Every breakthrough follows the same path: Align to solve the root problems, Disrupt what’s broken, and Rebuild what’s lasting.
ALIGN
We uncover what’s really happening between you — the patterns, triggers, and protective moves that keep you stuck. You’ll learn how each of you contributes to the cycle, without blame.
DISRUPT
We break the old reflexes. You’ll practice new ways of speaking, listening, and repairing. This is where awareness stops old cycles of behavior in their tracks, preparing for new growth.
REBUILD
You anchor the change with new habits. Healthy patterns and deeper intimacy are your new reality. You finally create a marriage that feels alive again. This phase is all about new growth.
This is the process through which I guide every couple — whether we meet weekly or work intensively.
Choose the path that fits your season of life.
Every couple’s rebuild looks different — what matters is finding a pace that fits your reality
PATH 1 - FREE REIGNITE COMMUNITY
For self-directed healing and reconnection.
Not every couple needs weekly coaching right away.
Reignite is your space to start rebuilding connection on your own terms.
Inside, you’ll find guided lessons, community discussions, and group office hours where I answer real questions from real couples.
It’s where you learn the tools, language, and emotional habits that make deeper work possible.
PATH 2 - WEEKLY COACHING CALLS
For steady, guided transformation.
When you’re ready for personalized feedback and consistent accountability, this is where we start.
We meet once per week for a 90-minute session focused on applying the Align · Disrupt · Rebuild process to your exact dynamic.
Between sessions, you’ll have messaging access for course correction, emotional regulation prompts, and real-time adjustments.
PATH 3 - THE DEEP REPAIR INTENSIVE
For couples in crisis who need immediate change.
Sometimes the marriage is hanging by a thread.
You can’t wait months for progress — you need transformation now.
The Reconnection Reset is an immersive process: up to two 90-minute sessions per week, daily feedback, and real-time coaching through critical moments.
It’s designed to break destructive patterns fast and re-establish trust, intimacy, and stability.
Real Couples. Real Results.
The Align • Disrupt • Rebuild process works because it creates movement where most couples stay stuck.
Why this Works When Other Options Haven’t
You don’t need more insight.
You need actionable change that travels with you where you are.
Most couples I work with have already been to therapy. They’ve learned how to “communicate better” or “see each other’s perspective.” But insight without structure doesn’t create change.
Coaching is different.
It gives you a framework that lives outside the session — so what happens in our calls actually shows up at home.
You’ll get:
— Alignment that sticks – We identify the real problem both of you agree to solve.
— Structure with purpose – Every session builds momentum, not just understanding.
— Accountability between sessions – Tools, practice, and feedback that keep the change alive
When you replace theory with movement, progress becomes inevitable.