Rebuild your marriage through a three-phase proven process.
Most couples come to me when they’ve tried everything — therapy, books, date nights — and nothing really changes.
Disconnection isn’t fixed by more information; it’s fixed by a process that rewires how you understand, speak to, and experience each other.
Every couple I work with moves through three essential phases: Align · Disrupt · Rebuild.
How fast we move depends on how deeply you want to engage.
The Three Phases of Change
Every breakthrough follows the same path: Align to solve the root problems, Disrupt what’s broken, and Rebuild what’s lasting.
ALIGN
We uncover what’s really happening between you — the patterns, triggers, and protective moves that keep you stuck. You’ll learn how each of you contributes to the cycle, without blame.
DISRUPT
We break the old reflexes. You’ll practice new ways of speaking, listening, and repairing. This is where awareness stops old cycles of behavior in their tracks, preparing for new growth.
REBUILD
You anchor the change with new habits. Healthy patterns and deeper intimacy are your new reality. You finally create a marriage that feels alive again. This phase is all about new growth.
This is the process through which I guide every couple — whether we meet weekly or work intensively.
Choose the path that fits your season of life.
Every couple’s rebuild looks different — what matters is finding a pace that fits your reality
PATH 1 - FREE TOOLS AND RESOURCES
Reconnect on your own terms.
Not every couple needs coaching right away.
Sometimes the first step is simply understanding what’s really happening between you
Path 1 gives you:
My long-form teaching videos on YouTube
Free tools like the Argument Autopsy
Frameworks to help you break your conflict cycle
Clear guidance you can apply immediately
Start here if you want clarity, direction, and real momentum — without pressure, cost, or commitment.
When you’re ready for deeper transformation, Paths 2 and 3 are waiting.
PATH 2 - WEEKLY COACHING CALLS
For steady, guided transformation.
When you’re ready for personalized feedback, consistent accountability, and real progress, this is where we begin working closely together.
Path 2 gives you:
Deep, individualized coaching
Clear direction each week
Messaging access between sessions for critical support
Tools and exercises tailored to your relationship
A proven structure for rebuilding emotional and sexual connection
Choose Path 2 when you’re ready to stop spinning in circles and start making consistent, measurable change.
PATH 3 - THE DEEP REPAIR INTENSIVE
For couples in crisis who need immediate change.
The Deep Repair Intensive is an immersive, accelerated experience. For couples in stage of life, emergency, or conflict crises.
This path includes:
Up to two 90-minute sessions per week
Daily check-ins and real-time coaching during critical moments
Rapid intervention to break destructive patterns
A comprehensive roadmap to stabilize, reconnect, and rebuild
It’s designed to break destructive patterns fast and re-establish trust, intimacy, and stability.
Real Marriages. Real Results.
The Align • Disrupt • Rebuild process works because it creates movement where most stay stuck.
Why this Works When Other Options Haven’t
You don’t need more insight.
You need actionable change that travels with you where you are.
Most couples I work with have already been to therapy. They’ve learned how to “communicate better” or “see each other’s perspective.” But insight without structure doesn’t create change.
Coaching is different.
It gives you a framework that lives outside the session — so what happens in our calls actually shows up at home.
You’ll get:
— Alignment that sticks – We identify the real problem both of you agree to solve.
— Structure with purpose – Every session builds momentum, not just understanding.
— Accountability between sessions – Tools, practice, and feedback that keep the change alive
When you replace theory with movement, progress becomes inevitable.