The Rebuild Intensive
A 3-month private coaching container for couples who need real movement — not months of talking in circles.
Most relationships don’t fall apart overnight.
And rebuilding doesn’t happen by accident.
It happens through structure, direction, and real-time support from someone who knows how to guide you through the hardest season of your marriage.
This is where your rebuilding begins.
What you get inside the rebuild intensive.
No vague sessions. No guessing. No drifting apart while you rehash last week’s argument.
You get daily structure, specific direction, and access to me when you need it most — not a week later.
WEEKLY COACHING CALLS
Weekly 60–90 minute intensives designed to move you forward fast — not talk in circles.
Every call has a specific objective and measurable outcomes
Your spouse joins when appropriate for real-time alignment
Live modeling of the communication tools you’ll be practicing
Recordings available (optional) so you can revisit breakthroughs
No vague chit-chat — everything is structured and purposeful
REAL-TIME SUPPORT
You don’t wait until next week to fix today’s problem.
24-hour response support through secure voice/text messaging
Step-by-step conflict coaching while the issue is actually happening
Immediate guidance when resentment spikes or shutdown happens
Support in navigating sensitive conversations with clarity
Accountability check-ins so you stay on track daily
DIRECT ACCESS
This is the difference between month-to-month therapy and a true intensive.
I’m with you throughout the week — not just in sessions
You’ll get direction in the exact moment the marriage needs it
No waiting rooms, no delays, no guessing
You get the support couples always say they wished they’d had earlier
This is the fastest path to movement because support meets the moment.
A CUSTOM REBUILD
Your personalized plan inside a private Notion portal that evolves as you do.
Phase 1: Align — diagnose the real root issues
Phase 2: Disrupt — break reactive patterns + communication loops
Phase 3: Rebuild — desire, connection, trust, shared direction
Daily micro-assignments and habits tailored to your actual relationship
Scripts, exercises, and tools updated weekly based on your progress
SELF-LED HEALING
This is where rebuilding becomes long-term.
Permanent frameworks for repairing trust
Tools for de-escalating conflict before it spirals
Strategies for desire, sexual reconnection, and emotional intimacy
A structure that prevents old patterns from returning
You walk away with the ability to repair any future challenge yourselves.
This is how you become a self-led, resilient couple — one that knows how to rebuild anything, anytime, together.
Who the intensive is for
If you’re here, you’ve already tried the slow path. This is for people who want fast movement and clear direction — not months of talking in circles.
This is for you if:
You want structure. You’re done guessing what to do or hoping things improve on their own.
You want direction. You’re ready for someone to tell you exactly what needs to happen — — so you can stop wasting time and start rebuilding.
You’re willing to take daily action. Not perfect action — just consistent steps that create momentum.
You want real-time support. You don’t want to wait until next week’s session to solve a problem that’s happening tonight.
You’re ready to rebuild trust, connection, or desire. Whether you’re facing conflict, disconnection, resentment, or a sexual shutdown — you want movement now.
This is not for you if:
There is an active, untreated addiction (substances, compulsive behaviors, or anything that would interrupt honest engagement or daily follow-through).
There is ongoing infidelity that hasn’t been disclosed or stopped. You don’t need perfection, but we need a stable ground to rebuild on.
There is current physical violence or unsafe behavior in the relationship. You need a different level of support than a coaching container can provide.
You want your partner to do all the work. Rebuilding is a team process. Even if one partner is more motivated right now, both have to be willing.