See the real reason you keep fighting.

You don’t have a communication problem — you have a cycle.

The Argument Autopsy shows you exactly where it breaks down.

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Why The Argument Autopsy Works

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CLARITY

It cuts through the noise. Instead of digging for a “root cause,” it shows you the loop you’re stuck in.

CONNECTION

It reveals what’s actually driving conflict. Not what you fought about — the pain underneath it. No more fighting over stupid reasons.

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REPAIR

It helps you reconnect. When you understand the cycle, you stop attacking each other and start repairing.

This is the same tool I use every day with the couples in my coaching practice.

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Screenshot of a digital workspace with two panels. The left panel shows a dark-themed project titled 'Argument Autopsy Log (Master)' with a few pages and options. The right panel displays a detailed guide on 'Argument Autopsy,' including sections on 'Context / Ghosts (What Came Before)' and 'Your Internal Experiences,' with numbered instructions and prompts for reflection.

Inside the Template

You’ll walk through the four essential ingredients of every conflict:

  1. Reactive Behaviors

  2. Core Vulnerabilities

  3. The Story You Tell Yourself

  4. Family-of-Origin Patterns

This is the full map of your conflict cycle — clearly laid out, step-by-step.

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