You're Not Roommates. You're Not Broken. You're Just Fighting the Wrong Battle
Most couples wait six years too long to get help. By then, they've tried therapy, read the books, and had those "we need to talk"
conversations that go nowhere. You don't need more processing. You need a roadmap out of the war zone—and someone who's
been there to guide you through it
I Lost Everything Before I Learned How to Save a Marriage
I'm not your typical marriage coach. I earned my PhD before 30, built a six-figure private practice, became a thought leader in my
field—and watched it all collapse when my secrets came crashing down.
Childhood trauma I'd never processed. A faith crisis that shook my identity. Addiction I kept hidden while counseling others. The irony
still haunts me: I was the helper who couldn't ask for help.
My practice? Gone. My reputation? Shattered. My marriage? Somehow, miraculously, it survived.
That survival became my education
Through 18 years of professional practice and 18 years of marriage that's been through hell and back, I've learned what actually
works when couples are at the breaking point. Not textbook theories. Not cookie-cutter advice. Real, hard-earned wisdom about what
it takes to rebuild trust, reignite desire, and choose each other again—as adults, with eyes wide open.
I work with high-functioning men and couples who look perfect on the outside but feel hollow on the inside. People who've achieved
everything except the one thing that matters most: a marriage that feels alive
My story isn't a liability. It's my greatest asset. Because I know exactly what it's like to sit across from someone who's at the end
of their rope, uncertain where to go next. I've been there. And I found a way through.
Stop Surviving Your Marriage. Start Living Inside It.
Couples in crisis get a one-month intensive experience built for real transformation — not therapy, but structured change.
SERVICES ADAPTED TO FIT YOU
When Your Marriage Is on Fire, You Don’t Schedule Weekly Appointments.
A high-access, month-to-month retainer for couples in full crisis. Immediate, hands-on support
You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone.
A free community with live sessions, frameworks, and guidance for couples not ready for full coaching.
Not Sure Where to Start? Let’s Talk.
Before you invest in anything, let's get clear on whether intensive coaching is right for you.
This 20-minute call is for you if:
You're not sure if your marriage can be saved
You've tried therapy and it didn't work
You want to know if I'm the right fit
You need clarity before making a financial commitment
This call is NOT for you if:
There's active abuse in your relationship
One partner has already decided to leave
There is untreated drug addition
Investment: Free
PRICING SUMMARY
You’re Not Broken. You’re Stuck.
After 18 years of helping marriages recover from the brink, I've learned one truth: most couples aren't failing because they don't
love each other. They're failing because they're fighting the wrong battles.
You're arguing about dishes when the real issue is feeling invisible
You’re fighting about sex when the real issue is safety.
You're stuck in the same loop because no one taught you how to break it
My frameworks The Conflict Decoder, The Table Metaphor, Three Levels of Dialogue give you a new map. One that actually
shows you where the land mines are buried and how to disarm them
This isn't about trying harder. It's about knowing where to focus.
Your Marriage Doesn’t Have to Be Another Statistic.
74.2% of sexless marriages end in divorce. But you're still here, reading this, which means you haven't given up yet.
The question isn't whether your marriage can be saved. The question is whether you're willing to do something different than what
you've been doing
Book a discovery call. Join the free community. Or go all-in with intensive coaching.
Whatever you choose, don't choose nothing. Your marriage and your future deserve better than that